Self Improvement
By Joanae - Naetorious.com
Why Women Lie to Themselves
Joanae says there are 3 reasons why even seemingly happy women lie to themselves and RUIN their love life, friendships, lose sanity and MORE.
Old Scars: (failures/memories)
On the outside, she can accept praise, and even boast about ‘said accomplishment’. In actuality, the woman is harboring old scars. Hurt and pain from her past that makes her feel obsolete with the present.
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Accepting what others think is great about the wins of this woman, and totally ignoring her suppressed frustration will have her living the ultimate lie.
Facing fears and past hurt is just not as easy to do.
As a solution, many women hide behind their accomplishments to avoid dealing with their demons.
Detached from Within:
The inability to become one with herself begins to overpower her desire to ever be better internally. These issues will, in fact, interfere with all aspects of life.
Intimate relationships, for example. I've always wondered why it was easy for some women to accept less than what they deserve when it came down to men.
A man can lie, cheat, steal, and degrade her…. Yet they still stay.
Comparing Themselves to Others:
When it's impossible for an individual to process the FACT that she was born to be great, the next step is usually impersonation. Yet, another lie.
You're clearly not good enough, (in your eyes), so you constantly attempt to become someone else.
In no way am I saying you can't admire the next Queen, but to think the only way that you will be noticed or valued is to mimic her presence is a lie that you or anyone else should need.
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